The Types of Child Custody in Maine
Does Maine recognize "joint custody"?
Maine recognizes "joint custody" – but a few years ago replaced the word "custody" with "parental rights and responsibilities." The old concepts of sole custody, allocated custody, and shared custody still exist -- but they're called by different terms.
What does the court look to in determining "parental rights and responsibilities" under Maine law?
To properly assess "parental rights and responsibilities" a court considers every aspect of what is in the child's best interest – not just the physical custody or primary residence of the child. Maine recognizes three types of parental rights and responsibilities: shared, sole, and allocated rights and responsibilities.
What is allocated parental rights and responsibilities?
Allocated parental rights and responsibilities means that certain aspects of a child's welfare are divided between the parents. The parent allocated a particular responsibility has the right to control that aspect of the child's welfare. Each right and responsibility may be divided between parents exclusively to one parent, or proportionally between each parent. Examples can include practically anything: the primary physical residence of children, the type and amount of parent-child contact, support, education, medical care, religious upbringing, and so on.
What is sole parental rights and responsibilities?
Sole parental rights and responsibilities means that one parent is granted exclusive parental rights and responsibilities for all aspects of a child's welfare. This is what we used to call "sole custody" in Maine.
What is shared parental rights and responsibilities?
Shared parental rights and responsibilities means that most or all aspects of a child's welfare remain the joint responsibility and right of both parents. This is the most common type of custody awarded in Maine. Assuming that both parents are basically competent to care for their children and have done a pretty good job prior to the divorce, shared parental rights and responsibilities allows both parents to retain equal parenting rights. This requires that the parents talk fairly often and, whenever possible, make joint decisions regarding their children.
Maine law provides that when the parents have agreed to an award of shared parental rights and responsibilities, the court shall make that award unless there is "substantial evidence" not to. The court is required to state in its decision the reasons for not ordering a shared parental rights and responsibilities award agreed to by the parents.
What standard does the court use to determine how to assign parental rights and responsibilities?
The court must determine what is in the "best interests of the child." There are many factors that help the court determine the best interests of the child. Some of the more important ones include:
- The age of the child;
- The preference of the child, if old enough to express a meaningful preference;
- The duration and adequacy of the child's current living arrangements, and the desirability of maintaining continuity;
- The stability of any proposed living arrangements for the child;
- The child's adjustment to the child's present home, school and community;
- The capacity of each parent to allow and encourage frequent and continuing contact between the child and the other parent, including physical access;
- The capacity of each parent to cooperate or to learn to cooperate in caring for their child;
- The existence of domestic abuse between the parents, in the past or currently, and how that abuse affects:
- The child emotionally; and
- The safety of the child
- The existence of any history of child abuse by a parent;
- A parent's prior willful misuse of the protection from abuse process;
- The existence of a parent's conviction for a sex offense or a sexually violent offense; and
- All other factors having a reasonable bearing on the physical and psychological well being of the child.
Does Maine law prefer mothers or fathers in determining where children should live?
Neither. Under Maine law, a court may not apply a preference for one parent over the other in determining parental rights and responsibilities because of the parent's gender or the child's age or gender. Title 19-A M.R.S.A. § 1653(4).

what if you aren't married but together for 14yr then split up,I had no choice but to move out with the children he gave us no choice that was about three years ago..never visited with the children just on holidays maybe,I had told him he could see them when ever he wanted. I file for support over a year ago...after trying to come to an arangement that he wanted no part of...now that dhs has been involed and served him with papers...he just now a week ago started to see them...and today my youngest came home and asked me about living with him..not that she wants to but wanted to know if I had ask him to take them...can he leagally do that...out of no where want custody?
Posted by: kyla | August 26, 2006 at 05:30 PM
Is there a legal age in Maine when a child can choose to live with one parent over the other regardless of the parent's opinion?
Posted by: Margaret | August 02, 2007 at 02:26 PM
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Posted by: music | January 07, 2008 at 04:15 AM
heres one..Mother had custody in Massachusettes ( not forced by the court the agreement was reached by mother and father )..mother turned around about a year later and handed father the child in Maine. Mother has been neglectful,abusive,has no place of her own..but wont give Father neccesary paperwork for custody.Do I need to go to Mass to file or can I after a period of time file here in Maine .Son was born in Maine but Mother absconded after 1 year and has lived in Massachusettes for 3 years.Child is 4 and presently living with myself and family
Posted by: Rick | January 20, 2009 at 08:12 AM
This is BS, just had a judge go against a GAL, therapist, pysch evals, school progress, and having 50 50 custody during the interim period. This retired judge who heard the case definitely went out of his way to take away all my weekdays and give me 2 of every 3 weekends, when 50 50 was working out, the children were adopted, boy and girl, 4 and 5 yrs old, and now have had a major reduction in custody. Judge clearly went with the fact that she so called "works" from home (despite traveling overnights 2 days a week), despite her cheating, he had a clear bias that the kids belong with their mother. I need help as I thought this was a fair state, and I thought that what was in the best interest for the kids came from the GAL, and, equal exposure to both parents. The legal system now sickens me, it is my first interaction with court, ever, all of my professional and driving licenses have never been in bad standing, no alcohol, drugs, abuse, etc... NO NOTHING!! but a judge can do whatever he wants to do. Advice for hiring a judge to referee the case outside of court? DONT DO IT IF YOU ARE A MALE!!!!!
Posted by: R | June 22, 2010 at 04:16 PM
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Posted by: RamonGustav | August 24, 2010 at 05:39 AM
Is there a permissible age in Maine when a kid can decide to live with one father over the other regardless of the parent's opinion?
Posted by: Work accidents claims | March 31, 2011 at 09:56 AM